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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

Why I have a BIBLE at the Wheel - A Kawangware bound driver's diary.



“Mambo Dere?” I started.
“Poa sana,” He had responded.
“Did you read your Bible today?” I asked pointing at an old New Testament Gideon’s International Bible that lay where speedometer was.  The bus must have gulped its miles over. The speed and gas indicators were settled with dust. It was an old engine. The driver, seemingly an alcohol lover by this kind of baked lips maybe by the consequence of work nature or by my mistaking, must be a low income earner. I watched him take the gear wheel back to speed down and up the road to Kawangware.
He had braked the bus in front of a lorry. The place has no bus stop. A child had repeatedly shouted ‘Shukisha dere’ and we had all laughed in small tones.  The lorry passed with the left sit occupant looking back to curse the driver for wrong parking. He was not moved. That is nature, he must have used to. 
Rowdy youths burn up a bus in Kawangware

“Why is it here?” he replied with a question suggesting that I was ignorant in asking. He is not the only one to think that way. Sometimes it is difficult to get into people’s comfort zones. More often they seem infringed. It obviously calls for maximum humbling and pretense to look positively concerned to get what they think. I liked that the rest of the words freely came from here. I nodded and made faces. I was startled at most of the instances. What followed are his words.
“This sit has a lot of temptations. The roads too. You cannot manage on your own. The Book you seeing has a purpose. Just imagine the traffic cop on the roads, the Nairobi city council askaris, accidents, the bus owner…. all in wait for you. Just you! Do not include home and other issues. You might collapse at the steering wheel.
“Many people ask me about this Bible. It is not easy to find drivers with one at their front. This bus can, by its own, start hopping. How do you help? It can get off the road to buildings or steal a pedestrian from the paves. Dead! It happens mysteriously. Or another vehicle bumps into the bus.  Without indication; without any precedent.  Sometimes assuming small scratches.  They are not worth following after because they may have prevented you from future clashes.
“I do not like long distance travels. It is better to operate within the capital. Those accidents you hear of… they are not driver’s mistakes. More often the drivers get overwhelmed with situations. Like the Mombasa bound buses. Do you think they are steered with faith in nothing? This driver’s seat is not a one man’s place. People are different… are you getting?
“You need to be aware. You have not yet seen a new bus being taken someplace with only the driver and the owner. Then exposed to paraphanalia and mystic proceedings. As a driver, it is your job. you are in need of edonomic survival. How do you deny work? It is better to have the job and go a step a head to believe in your God. It hapens. These vehicles you see are not empty. They are loaded.

“At the end of the day the owner awaits for the daily income. That is a problem. When it is less, you cannot go to your house in peace. Sometimes he (talking in Kiswahili, I was not sure whether the owner was he or she because the language does not masculise or feminise pronouns) talks to you rudely making you regret as o why you chose the job. It forces one wonder whether he has a belonging or not. The deficit may have been caused by a breakdown or a cop who ‘ate’ some.
I was alert. Stealing looks of his face and he doing alike. Some passengers alighted as others boarded. Everytime we stopped other cars had to and horn. It is a narrow road. I responded with short pauses and words, helping him to finish some sentences.
“There are instances when a driver is sacked. Then they visit their godly advisors. No other man can seat before the steering wheel. It is sometimes tricky to explain.  The new driver is exposed to all manner of mystic sights and feelings. The seat becomes untolerable, feeling pieced by unseen thorns. More often ghosts are seen. Then accidents occur. Not bacause they are careless.
“This Bible is also respected by the cops. When they stop me and see it, their attitude change. They treat me like their friend. I have been caught on the wrong side of the law on many instances. But they have not sent me behind the bars yet…
He was freely sharing his thoughts. Maybe I could have kept on traveling with him to 46- the destination. I had a feeding programme to supervise. Maybe I could have listened more. I had never sat at the driver’s front seat heading to Kawangware. Maybe I will start going for the seat. And see what other drivers are saying about the same. Of course without sounding ignorant or inquisitive. “
“Mungu akubariki Dere”, I said while alighting. The bus was zooming away. I gazed at it. Forgetting to master the number plate so that I may reach for the driver some other time. Being a diary, things will merge themselves up. No worries…

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