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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

A COMRADE DIES AND THE WIND DOESN'T BECOME STILL

A friend is shot and the earth still rotates on its axis. The sound is heard in the building and the second hour of the clock still tickles. The bullet shutters the veins and nerves and the assassin has the guts to see his all time plan happen in a flash. The body falls, gasps for help and no one is in sight. The soul lives in promise for an eternal place. Isn’t this tomfoolery?

Friends receive the news of your death in calls and texts. Others see on social media. We immediately gasp our ops! And sorries. Then get appetitive for more. Calls are made and more texts written. The world does not stop. The friends do not lose appetites. They do not cry. It is not the first case anyway- we are used to death news.

What if I die today too? A useless son of a woman whose heart doesn’t know how precious life is may have stabbed me in the chest. Or shot me right in the eye- or the left ear. A son who has never written a page of his life in a diary but spending all his life talking hatred. Will my friends fill my Facebook wall with unfortunate moods? Will they text my phone? Will one gasp for breath and faint? Will they communicate to my picture silhouettes? What will happen? Let me not talk about this.

The killer- a man. The tool- a gun. Have we now taken law into our hands? Who will seek justice for Kevin? Who will hold the stomach of his mother living in Eastleigh the time the tall boy will be lowered into the grave? Who will tie her rope tight? If Kevin had eaten another’s sweat if so can be the case, why should the person have sought other means? How many others will the person take lives from?

Burying a pal is so painful just that we do not have words to express. He was moved by the death of his friend- Twala- a few months ago. He organized a team that travelled to bury his classmate. He least knew that it waited for him just like I know not when my assassin will arrive. It may be age, accident, drown, disease or murder. We die like rats. Dogs live longer than we.

This brings us to simple social phenomena- why do people grow sadistic that they would rather end a life? Do they know how valuable life is? What has he gained from the killings? If the assassin is faced by the same fate what will be justice there? Not even the killing of the guilty can repay the death of the innocent. If though the assassin can read this let him know that it was such a bad move that he should curse his existence.

Life is hard; they say. Youths are too careless and foolishly idealistic. They run all manner of earnings including hit-runs. They do not know how to solve problems amicably. They think that Kevin was an enemy not knowing how many friends he had and how a blessed son he was to other hearts. This is precipitated by the noisy environments, violent movies and music and lack of life visions. Who will rise from the dead or come from space to give some people sense?

The bulbs still turn on and bills will be due for us to pay. Our hearts will mourn and our minds forget Kevin. Time will cure us. But the human heart- a source of all evils will remain with us. What are we doing to educate minds and hearts? What are we involved in when we see such happenings? Let Kevin be the last. We will die all in the end, yes. But let us live first.

If you feel like killing, please kill yourself. Others are better than you. It will give us the heart to mourn you. As for Kevin, the tears are painful, the memories heart braking and the realization that he is no longer with us, unaccepted! 


RIP KEVIN. I LOVE YOU BROTHER

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