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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

MAYBE KU IS THE BEST

Interacting with a University of Nairobi student leader led me to think this way. KU is just KU. How can it be best? Why compare it? Maybe it is depending on your GPA or it isn’t now that you serving a two-year suspension term. All the fighting and goon activities that happen in uncertified online panels and Nairobian related Newspapers of how Ababu poses with a gun and Ndege Sirkal buys an expensive car for a university student is only catalyzed by the 6,500/- pay from SONU. An executive member being paid such an amount after remodeling another’s face is comical. I don’t want to dwell here.

A university student as per my definition is he (most of ladies come in with minor achievements hence a he first) who readily values diversity and acts in such a manner that he would want to look back and cherish the moment. It is in the blood of any careless youth to act stupidly at this youth hour. Some of us dwell in stupidity as others wake up from it as soon as the psych clicks. When you do goon activities and think that you will best be remembered for that I will compare you to the foolish hippopotamuses read in primary school that the hare cheated upon.

Being a student leader in KU does not provide a forum for Kenyan future politicians yet many will cling to this- at least be a leader to self. Young people are in a hurry to be worshipped and be called gods. Gods compete with none. They are very jealous than Satan. Having fought for only 2000/- for a congress person in Nairobi, you walk out of the school gates with a poor reputation. KU pays better. He has no job as some claim to be job creators. His soles took him to a bank and all but one certificate wasn’t attached- student leader certificate. To him, this is shameful and may reduce his chances of getting the job. He was however laid off the sixth day after coming to work late in the name of being sick. A potential gangster is the look in his eyes.


We are not looking at UoN with a bad eye. I would want a master in the institution for its reputation in terms of credited personnel. I would want my brother to school there. All schooling institutions are set up with a good agenda at the end but when shameful elements gain breeding grounds the soil risks pollution. We are the inhabitants of the soil.

Having been naive in High School we carry the ignorance to campus thinking that we have conquered the world and selves too. The absence of a red-eyed deputy principal in a crocodile jumper and a cane sends us to all manner of juvenile delinquency. We fuck stupidity back into ourselves by engaging in unprofitable activities. We drink, sex, waste time, mock, fight, pollute, eat, spend and demolish instead of maximizing on the better side of our energies. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed- Einstein. A confused youth will only direct efforts to careless behaviour- politics is one. Sex another.

Walking in village paths during holidays feeling respected and achieving for Kenya has not yet hit a three million graduate workforce, we fail to correct ourselves on a number of issues. To some, it takes a lifetime to grow and the filling of the earth with foolish people is the nature’s most misdoing to humans. We isolate ourselves in ways and thoughts. We no longer accept the sacredness of the elders and their role for we don’t have dignified elders. We think we are in the wrong places. Sadly, we think we are better than them- the opposite of education.

When you do good, you feel good. When you do badly, you feel bad; Abraham Lincoln’s religion. Having served students at your best in whatever position of leadership, you become strong and can advocate for your certificate. The certificate mocks when there are no values to defend it. The education in you wastes away when no one can benefit from it.

Simple activities in the campus like clubs and societies participation are hardly attended by some. I could have it rough standing at the old gate- the new is coming- only to wait for hours for the not-coming souls. Most wanted to be paid for a children home visit. Some just never had time. Maybe they participated in other activities. Which activities? It is through participating in one that you would want to participate in many. Clubs train leaders at their smallest areas of operation. To vote in a student leader, it has ever been my thought to choose either a class representative or a club leader- people who have showed interest in volunteer leadership since their stepping in the campus before being commissioned to previledged positions. Paying yourself up is what mostly happens.

Survival is by natural selection. If you chose good…you will last by it. If you chose bad, it will destroy you. When a campus does not value integrity, the aftermath is violence of mind and actions. When an environment of healthy growth is not secured the bad elements are more likely to spoil the good. A suspension is not a death sentence-it is ways to have the mind assess itself. No one wishes bad to another and he who does the sword to him first. And if UoN offers an environment to runaway stubborn boys, it is like Kaimosi Boys that had intakes from suspended Senende Boys. Instead of growing, the institution gradually becomes an approved school.

No one is holy. Mistakes come more often to the young people poor in experience and vulnerable to meet needs. A student who has been taught by his parents that not all that glitters is gold will always think twice. A student who keeps a daily diary will see to self correction. It takes habits to be identified as a spoiler- not a onetime emotion.

As we pick up other steps in life, the past will always be reflected in. Having learnt in a violent environment where there is no right, it will stream down into our old age and generation. At least let us step up environmental conservation measures and not deal with open sincere ignorance. It is wrong to lie, to beat a comrade, to insult, to riot and to form goon gangs. But it is right to express opinions in a manner that you convince conscience it is good for you and others.


With that, you will not only be at peace with the world but with self too. What does a young person want more than getting busy in search for knowledge? 

2013/14 KUSA congress during a retreat in Mombasa.

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