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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to
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Out of Order. Do not remove members.

Govedi Muzami: Lung'afa any particular reason why  you are removing family members🤔?

Lung'afa: Our brother does not respond positively when privately asked to keep matters Saniaga on the forum.  Instead he keeps on with the nag. 

And removing doesn't mean abhor. Many of us leave... without intending harm often. 

I guess I am in order.

Govedi Muzami: Out of Order. You have NO  powers to remove but just to add please. 

Let's accommodate all and sundry. 

We are family🤗

Erick Author: Solomon does have a serious problem with communication though. He could be counseled on that but he's not the listening type either. Can rub you the wrong way without even realising it. 😁

Analo Akivaga: Exactly let's not brood dictatorial tendencies here. No one is more superior than another on this matter.We are here as equals but mutual respect  and decorum must prevail.

Lung'afa: Lack of mutual respect makes us unequals therefore!

Analo Akivaga: There is need for an Executive or Management Board Page with membership of this groups leaders and where decisions such as admission and expulsion should be discussed and agreed amongst the leaders then one person is tasked to execute.

Govedi Muzami: All the same Eric

I can't remove you if you rubbed me the wrong would I😁?

You would qualify that to be personal if I did.

Wouldn't you?

Let's just agree to fit inside here whether we agree or not😉

Analo Akivaga: Let's exercise utmost tolerance with each other and private disagreements or difference of opinion must never be must to be a public affair.Please!

Evans Muhali: As far as Solomon is concerned I think this brother has attitude issues that he needs to address urgently. I have had a nasty encounter with him and I had to literally block him. He has a problem and he needs help.

Lung'afa: I will add him after a short while.

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