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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

The girl who wed today

The girl who wed today
Has the face of my X-girl
And I wonder why
A man can get so low
When he could invite her in
If so he has never done
To make her the one
For the sake.

The girl who wed today
Was under torture
To be in a gown
Plaster herself yellow
When she could only pack
Her laziness and hypocrisy
Lock ears to the world
To join the sinner
In a black suit.

The girl who wed today
Vowed in her heart
To be a lady. Not a woman
She will not be a rat
A boy and girl only
For the white God says
One man, one woman
Period!

The girl who wed today
All came by surprise
The car, fame, proposal...
That is what she married
For she is unsure
Whether wifery is real
And in a conviction
She had severally advised self
That if the bastard changes
She will teach him a lesson
Worth her PhD in psychology.



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