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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

The wife all along been the landlady?

-‬: If I were the man, I would jump up and down with joy and celebration because the days of being harrased by land lords are over, I wouldn't mind when she purchased the house, 10years ago or yesterday as long as she is still my wife. Hiding that from me would be neither here nor there!

-: You would spare yourself cheap fainting. 😂😂😂😂

-: I wouldn't even get shocked because I had all the time to know what was going on with my family but I never bothered, it simply means I was an absentee husband!

-: He was paying the rent to who!? An agent!? And in ten years he'd never needed to meet the landlord!!?

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