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Heavy responsibilities for elder aunt among the Logooli

With Seenge Fonesi. She is the elder grand daughter of Isagi and elder daughter of Amugasya. She is often present in functions involving the family of Amugasya. Pic taken on 18/4/2024. The elder sister soon becomes the elder aunt. It is this “seenge munene” (elder aunt) tag that she is tied to many cultural responsibilities – back home. To her marital family she may appear as any other woman, but she is not so in the eyes of her people. Marriage does not steal her away as it would happen with other daughters of the old man. To her, as days go and the old man and woman of the estate are dependents, she becomes increasingly present.  Her brothers also need her for almost all traditional markings. They are marrying, she needs to welcome the new wife. They are giving birth, she needs to come to midwife or “bless” the new born. They are paying dowry she needs to lead the women delegate. There is a conflict she needs to come for a hearing.  And many others. Traditions does not expect her to

Why Leave? A common habit?

[04/08 10:17 pm] Martin Kidiavai: Would appreciate to know the reason(s) making people to leave...and I wonder to which CLAN...

[04/08 10:20 pm] Lung'afa: they do not understand that this is not an ORDINARY WhatsApp GROUP. This is home.

[04/08 10:23 pm] Lung'afa: The boy who left above I met him the other day in a youth function...and it does not surprise, he will wean himself  to want inclusion some time else

[04/08 10:23 pm] Martin Kidiavai: We have respected and aged individuals like Luvai..please they need to enlighten these young people

[04/08 10:23 pm] Peter Kirima: Its never easy to run a group. People are from different orders and philosophy. Patience is needed

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